Just A Reality Check. Long But Worth It!
So last night I had a intense conversation with a person that obtains alot of
wisdom and knowledge about life itself, and the luxuries, and problems that come
with it. I realized that I need to hold myself on the highest pedestal… above
everyone else. You only live once and if you think your the best you WILL be
the best no doubt about it. So if im holding myself to the highest expectations why
not hold the people around me that high? For instance… Women. If your
gonna make your self available and accessible and un-exclusive to every guy what’s gonna make
the one you want want you? What’s gonna make him want you if your tryna hook up with guys?
Not even for sex but just trying to hang and all that and you may end up doing
something dumb? If your talkin to a bunch of guys and think that shit is koo then
by all means go ahead but your not making yourself a challenge anymore. If your
gonna go for the next man rather than someone who has ALOT of shit going for
them and you know it but you blow it off then go ahead at the end of the day
when you turn 22-25 ish you will be regretting it (general statement… that was
NOT directed towards anyone.) So yea you should feel your too good for that male or female. I would want
someone who feels she is to good for that as well.
Someone who is gonna go hard for you just as hard as you will go for them, someone
who will have your back when you most need it and make the words “i” and you” irrelevant but “us” relevant. Who
loves you with all your flaws and all.
From my understanding the saying goes “you will never loose love chasing
money, but always loose money chasing love.” Now
another thing is class… Handle situations like it doesnt even phase you… if
someone is getting out of line with you than you handle it and say “usually id go
off…( pause)… but because im smart and have more respect for myself ima let this one slide,
but i suggest you tone it down” and walk off… You will feel alot better about
yourself rather than trying to fight…
Some people dont know how to turn that on and off. Personality opens the
door… But your character can close it quicker than you opened it. Some people
minimize themselves to one standard in life… And its kind of sad… When people
have money they are content… Its a select few who think “ok I got money, now
how am I gonna make this money multiply into more money?” Most usually just
wanna get by… You dont wanna get by… You wanna get over! If you ask someone “what have you been up to?” most will say “Just
work… Im just kind of focusing on that right now” But realistically its
IMPOSSIBLE to focus on just one thing… There may be certain degrees of
focus on certain things but all in all everything is still needing to be focused on…
#1. Cleanliness: Thats the first step… you cant save the world if you dont make
your bed… Meaning if you dont do the little necessary steps to get your day
started than you wont be able to complete the large task… Why do you think the
Armed Forces make their bed EVERY morning before going to save the
world?? #2. Health: Point blank take care of yourself: #3. Finances: Dont just get
by… get over! If you give a little you will receive alot more. Every 60-90 days a
person should change something about themselves wether it be a major change
or a huge change. So dedicate a season of your life to something, or someone
and watch the results… Some of them can be catastrophic.
Now back to the subject of women… Its kind of like this… your looking for the pedigree
of women. What is that? Ill give you 3 examples… You got Rihanna, Beyonce, &
Lauren London… Out of those 3 who is the pedigree? Sure Lauren London is
fine, Rihanna is exotic, but Beyonce is a woman! She made us believe she was a
full grown woman at the age of 17. So true her and Jay-Z arent the typical couple but he makes
Beyonce feel powerful and she does with him as well so dont hate people c’mon
now! The things she brings to the table are not something that most women can
do… Im not sayin go lookin for a Beyonce.. but more so a woman who brings shit to the
table, who has motivation, class, inner and outer beauty, who is focusing on
more than one thing and can still maintain a relationship, someone who will go
above and beyond. Not just go the distance… Actions speak louder than
words… So yea women will begin to notice when a guy doesnt have shit… Sure
being the ages between 16-20 it will appear that someone is truly doin somethin
with their life but as you get older you realize and think to yourself “what is the
person doin for me?” Too many people try to be different they end up being the
same because everyone is trying to be different… Just be YOU… Who cares
what others think.
I think I said pretty much of all what I had to say… Please comment it and let me
know your opinion..
-Q
